THE CURIOUS REBEL
Stop performing *FINE*.
A quieter rebellion —
without fixing, forcing,
or earning your worth through exhaustion.
In a world that rewards pushing, your body has learned to brace.
You did everything “right.”
You stayed responsible.
You carried more than your share.
And something still feels off.
That’s not weakness.
That’s a system that never got to stand down.
This space is for women whose lives work —
but whose nervous systems are done negotiating.
What this isn’t:
Not symptom management.
Not calm culture.
Not optimisation dressed up as self-care.
What this is:
Capacity first.
Because override kills capacity.
And nothing lands on bracing.
THE CURIOUS REBEL
Who’s this for?
Women who:
are capable, reliable — and quietly exhausted
don’t fall apart, they tighten up
have done the work — and still feel braced underneath
are tired of managing themselves
want something truer, not softer
If this doesn’t land, this isn’t your place.
That’s intentional.
THE DOORS
PRIVATE WORK
For women done negotiating every decision from a braced system.
DEATH TO DOING MORE
An interruption for women who are always on duty.
COMING ONLINE (WHEN THEY’RE READY)
- ANTI-DOTE
- ANTI-FREEZE
- OFF SCRIPT
Not programmes. Not pathways. Interruptions.
If something in you settled reading this,
you already know where to go next.
THE ANTI-CALM
Irregular short notes on capacity, bracing, and why doing more isn’t the answer.
No optimisation. No Calm Cult. Just structural truth.
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