Stop performing *FINE*.
Burnt out?
Or just…
competent,
reliable,
calm as f*ck —
and absolutely knackered.
In a world that rewards pushing, your body has learned to brace.
You don’t fall apart.
You tighten up.
You don’t panic.
You prepare.
You don’t rest.
You manage.
Impressive.
Also the problem.
You were taught:
More effort = more safety.
So you became the backup generator.
The emotional shock absorber.
The one who notices first.
Strong.
Exhausting.
THE CURIOUS REBEL
Who’s this for?
Women who:
are capable, reliable — and quietly exhausted
don’t fall apart, they tighten up
have done the work — and still feel braced underneath
are tired of managing themselves
want something truer, not softer
If this doesn’t land, this isn’t your place.
That’s intentional.
THE DOORS
COMING ONLINE (WHEN THEY’RE READY)
- ANTI-DOTE
- ANTI-FREEZE
- OFF SCRIPT
Not programmes. Not pathways. Interruptions.
If something in you settled reading this,
you already know where to go next.
THE ANTI-CALM
Irregular short notes on capacity, bracing, and why doing more isn’t the answer.
No optimisation. No Calm Cult. Just structural truth.
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